BOBBY BLUE BLAND / “Bobby Blue Bland Mixtape”
The first time I remember slow dragging, holding a warm, nubile, young lady in my arms as I tried to get the side-to-side of an awkward albeit deliberate two-step together, well, that was when I was at a party on the patio of our junior high school. One of those beautiful New Orleans evenings, star warmed by clear skies and lingering humidity. Colored lights were strung from the trees, an electric cord stretching into a second floor window. I’d be lying if I said I remember the girl’s name. I don’t. I don’t even remember if it was 7th or 8th grade, although knowing me, I’d lean that it was 7th grade because that was my time of adolescent self-awakening. Rivers Frederick Junior High School was the first school I attended where my mother wasn’t a teacher. No one knew me. Everything, including catching the public transit bus for a three mile trip each morning and afternoon, all on my own; stopping sometimes at a corner store that was in the middle of the block where I got off the bus in the morning and spending my lunch money on a liver-cheese sandwich, with a couple of pennies left over; walking young ladies home who lived in the neighborhood surrounding our school before jumping on the Galvez bus to head down into the Lower Ninth Ward; or, even going to the main library and then walking over to meet my father at 4:30pm when he got off from work at the Veterans Hospital where he was a laboratory technician and we would take the long ride home together, me with my school books and he invariably reading Reader’s Digest (which I have recently read is going out of business)—it would be years and years later before I realized that my father read Reader’s Digest to keep up on his self-education even though he probably couldn’t read at a college level. All of that and more of that is wrapped up in the simple memory of dancing my chest close pressed to her budding breasts. While I don’t remember many specifics about that moment, I am certain of one thing: one of the songs to which my dear friend and I danced was Bobby Blue Bland from his new album Two Steps From The Blues. I’m not sure what people who didn’t grow up on this music hear when they listen to songs like “Lead Me On,” but for me it is an emotional pause button that instantly segues into rewind. I’m back there. The lower back, the sweetest spot (or so it seemed at that time) on a young woman’s body. And the smell of pomade and Vaseline, perfume came later. We were just out of childhood crossing over into adolescence, moving in exploratory ways to learn who we were and wanted to become, fumbling with bodies that were transforming and trying to figure out what to do with the chemistry those carousing harmonies had released into our bodies. “Lead Me On.” Just take my hand, and lead me on. What more was there to say, her ear pressed against your cheek, you breathing gently on her neck, hoping your palms were not too sweaty. Oh the emotional terribleness of that tender budding. Unlike an old keepsake which has withered, a preserved flower, say, pressed between the pages of a school book that was kept for sentimental reasons; or even the slightly out of focus image of an old, faded Polaroid, it’s faint, sharp chemical smell long ago faded to scentlessness; unlike near ancient memorabilia mothballed in some secret space, “Lead Me On” remains fresh, turning your eyes into a gently flowing fountain of sparkling tear droplets that are the morning dew on your memory flowers blossoming in your mind as your past grips afresh, holds you securely just like you did what’s-her-name at that dance. What all of the above is trying to get to is a suggestion of how this music is more than music for some of us, more than something to listen to. These songs—and I’m speaking specifically about the ones from Two Steps From The Blues—these are songs that opened us in our youth, accompanying our steps into adulthood, and open us now in our elder years as certain synapses in our brains give rebirth to the beginnings of our maturing. In music we live again. And then five years later, I’m in Northfield, Minnesota, profoundly perplexed, profoundly dissatisfied and paradoxically profoundly exposed to worlds of information, ideas and experiences I previously never knew existed. There I was, snow coming down in March, listening to Bobby Bland sing “As Soon As The Weather Breaks.” I can remember half-convincing myself that Bobby wrote the song just for me… and here, I must make a strange note: I may have the situation all backwards. By that I mean, maybe I didn’t hear the song while I was in Minnesota, maybe I heard it later and when hearing it at that time, Bobby’s baritone so perfectly capsulized my recall of misery in Minnesota that I conflate the two even though they may have happened years apart. Music is such a strong time machine that it can bridge eras, melding desperate moments into a seamless whole. For me, these beautiful songs succinctly reflect life experiences in ways no other art form does. The feeling is both instantaneous and profound, immediate and thoroughgoing. I am back on that stone patio. The soft rustle of our clothing encountering each other’s bodies. The feel of the fabric. The young flesh. The young night. And this new music, or as the Dells would say, “oh, what a night!”
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7 Responses to “BOBBY BLUE BLAND / “Bobby Blue Bland Mixtape””
August 24th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
Bobby Blue Bland is an artist I just don’t know well enough — at least, not until now.
Thanks as always, Kalamu, not just for the turning us on to the music but for sharing through your great and evocative prose!
August 25th, 2009 at 12:44 am
I recently came across your blog and have been reading along. I thought I would leave my first comment. I don’t know what to say except that I have enjoyed reading. Nice blog. I will keep visiting this blog very often.
Betty
October 4th, 2009 at 12:09 pm
When I was 11 my parents relocated from England to Canada. Elvis was the rage and I dug him-but on my first Elvis long play I fell in love with a song I never heard on the radio “So Glad Your Mine”. Take a listen, you’ll see that this English boy was hard-wired to appreciate the blues. Fast forward to the sixties, football player Willie Fleming had a short lived one hour spot on the local rock radio station-first song he played was “I Pity the Fool” by Bobby Blue Bland-I was hooked, and as good fortune would have it the Bobby Bland Revue arrived in Vancouver soon after-I became a fan for life, was even lucky enough to join Mr. Bland between shows in Toronto for an informal chat. I consider my life was changed forever by the music of Bobby Bland.
October 14th, 2009 at 5:53 pm
We in my hometown love Mr. Bland. He was a big influence on me and my friends when we were growing up. To this day whenever he comes to town . My friend know where we will be headed.4th and B or where ever he shows up at. Evelyn and I love him dearly and also Herman that is no longer playing with him.we miss Mr. B.B.B.
October 15th, 2009 at 4:57 am
Enjoy reading your blog. Glad I came across it. Love Bobby Blue Bland. The last time I saw him was June, 2003 in Los Angeles. Would love to see him again. Is he still performing? Does he tour?
April 14th, 2010 at 1:59 pm
Let me start out by saying we love you Mr. Blue Bland. I have been enjoying your music every since I was a young girl living at home. My mom use to listen on the old record albums the 33s. I still have the two steps from the blues on the old album. I also have all the ones that I bought when I became an adult. plus on dvd, i pod ect. I use to talk to Herman in the B.B.B band. I try to get to see the shows when they come to town. My friend Eveylyn is one of the biggest fans. My birthday and Bobbys is 3days apart. I missed the show this year but, I understand there was a big bash that was thrown for Bobby. I hope that everone had a nice time. Much love to Bobby and a belated happy happy birthday. From a long time fan in San Diego ca.
March 26th, 2013 at 4:45 pm
Amen, brother! You must have been with me in junior high, cause you nailed it to a T.
I think you might enjoy my bio of Bobby, Soul of the Man–available at the usual places.
Thanks–good stuff!
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